( like i'm not, already! ) just to share with you mothers-to-be! (already mothers, let's take a trip down memory lane...)
taken from babycenter ( i swear by this site for everything about pregnancy!)
1 Relishing the early weeks when only you and your husband knew your special secret.
2 Knowing you've got nine whole months to plan, dream and fantasize.
3 Choosing maternity clothes - they've never been more practical or more sexy.
4 Now you've got the perfect excuse to pamper yourself - spending hours in a scented bath, enjoying a massage or rubbing soothing lotions into your growing bump.
5 Maternity leave when you will have two whole months (or three months if you work for the government) to enjoy your baby.
6 You can join a antenatal class and find a whole new bunch of friends. Don't forget our online community: another great way to meet people due at the same time as you.
7 For once in your life you need to get heavier - pregnancy is Nature's way of making you feel good about putting on weight.
8 If this is your first baby, enjoy the next nine months sleeping late at weekends: you won't get many chances later on.
9 At last you've got the bosom you've always wanted, which means you also have... ( daddy loves mommy's curve :) )
10...a great excuse to buy lots of pretty new bras. ( speaking of which, i need to do bra shopping this week! can't fit in no more! )
11 Finally, you can ask people to get off their seats for you in the LRT, train or bus. ( not so far, but looking forward to!)
12 At last you'll have something more than pot plants and cats to care for and nurture!
13 Suddenly you'll find you're getting lots of extra attention from parents, aunts and uncles, not to mention your husband. ( owh yes! )
14 You may find you develop a closer relationship with sisters, cousins or friends who are parents themselves. Congratulations, you've just won free admission to the parents' club! ( this is very true )
15 Telling your mum, dad, sister, brother, aunt and seventh auntie twice removed, the good news and watching their faces light up. ( my mom cried! )
16 New talents! Whether it's folding reusable nappies or assembling a flat-pack cot, you'll suddenly find yourself trying out all sorts of new skills.
17 Suddenly you'll feel a new appreciation for your own mother and all she went through having you.
18 Decorating the nursery: one of the most exciting things you'll ever do.( can't wait for this! )
19 Feeling those first fluttering kicks and thinking, "Is that what I think it is? Or is it just wind?"
20 Feeling just fine about sending your husband out for roti canai followed by double-choc chip ice cream and cendol. ( my case would be McDonald's Fillet O Fish at 4.00am! )
21 Your parents digging out your old cot or pram, which they've kept safely all this time "just in case".
22 Going for healthy walks with your husband and getting fresh air in your lungs because it's good for you and good for your baby.
23 Enjoying the extra-vivid dreams you get in late pregnancy - and laughing about them with your friends.
24 Feeling a little pair of heels prodding under your diaphragm and knowing you'll soon be meeting the little person they belong to!
25 Choosing baby clothes and planning what you're going to buy.
26 Writing a pregnancy diary for your baby to read in the future. ( i have this! )
27 Getting someone to take photos of you smiling over your enormous bump so that, one day, you can look back and be amazed you were ever that size. ( jay has been doing this for me :) )
28 Finding out how many people there are out there ready to care for you: grandma, grandpa, mum and dad, great grandaunt Bibi who used to scold you for playing masak-masak with her good china, doctors, nurses, breastfeeding counsellors...
29 Lying in bed with your husband's arms around you and your bump, knowing that love has created a new life. ( owh yes! this one's definitely! )
30 Enjoying indulgences, such as evenings out, weekends away and anything else you might not be able to do so easily once the baby arrives.
31 Knowing that from now on, whatever happens, you'll never be bored again.
32 Making new friends whenever you go shopping - everyone has a pregnancy story to share.
33 You can spend whole evenings debating baby names, but don't forget to try our BabyCenter baby namer and top Malaysian names lists if you get stuck! ( my name suggestions became instant hit with the daddy )
34 Imagining what he or she will look like. Your sweet little ears, of course, and his sexy eyes! ( owh yes, everyday! )
35 Dreaming about, "My daughter the prime minister/pop star/brain surgeon." ( daddy wants AJ to be a pilot! )
36 Looking at your growing bump in the mirror and realising there's a person in there!
37 Making out a squirmy outline on the ultrasound monitor. Asking for the pic to take home and pinning it up next to your work station, or just keeping it in your bag to sneak looks at.
38 The expression on your husband's face as he sees the test strip turn blue, looks at your growing bump or feels the baby kicking. ( jay is always excited, no matter when )
39 Buying that first little cuddly toy for your baby, not somebody else's. ( i know what i am going to get! )
40 Making that phone call to your husband to tell him that - we're off! - labour has started.
41 Trying out all those exercises you learned at antenatal class and finding out that they actually work!
42 Being held and supported throughout a contraction by your husband or labour companion and knowing that you can trust them totally.
43 Finding out, as the contractions get tough, that your repertoire of swear words (in several languages!) is far more extensive than you ever realised!
44 Making an informed choice about pain relief and finding that it's right for you at thatstage in labour.
45 That huge rush of pleasure and relief when, suddenly, all the pain and effort stops.
46 Looking into your newborn's eyes and falling utterly in love.
47 Hearing your husband tell his colleagues, the cleaning lady, delivery man and anyone else he can find because his joy and pride are overwhelming.
48 Celebrating! Whatever the time of day or night.
49 Making all those phone calls to announce the arrival. Telling everyone the news and hearing the excitement in their voices.
50 Waking up to see your baby sleeping next to you and thinking, 'Wow! This is real. I'm a mum!'
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